In the last few weeks I’ve started to slowly cut people out I’d been chasing. After some serious internal reflection, I’d discovered why I was so desperate for maintaining connections with people, even when there was very little reciprocation. I’m starting to learn why I just refused to give up and just kept trying.
I’m working on letting those relationships with people go. I don’t mean just romantic connections, this extends to friendship, business and acquaintances as well.
I’m guilty of chasing people who so clearly do not want to be caught.
I will not chase you anymore. If you want to spend time with me then make it happen.
I don’t need your, “I miss you” or “thinking about you” texts when you are bored, lonely or horny and I haven’t heard from you in weeks, months or years. I don’t need your excuses as to why you just don’t ever seem to have the time.
I want to focus my time and energy on people who are willing and want to make the time.
Otherwise, I’m learning to be content with letting you go and being on my own.